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Thank you
Could you explain the relationship between love and hate? Could they co-exist? What happens if you feel these feelings towards the same person, what should you do? - Moon Arica
Dear Moon,
Your question dances at the edge of life's deepest mysteries - the place where opposites meet, where hearts break open, where wisdom waits in what feels impossible.
Love and hate - these ancient dancers, always moving together, always teaching us about ourselves. Let me share what I've come to understand about their sacred dance:
Love includes. Hate excludes.
This is their first teaching.
Their deepest secret.
Love holds space for everything - even hate -
while hate can hold nothing but itself.
This is why they can coexist
When you feel both for someone,
you're being invited into the great dance of the universe -
the eternal rhythm of coming together and growing apart,
like breath, like waves, like heartbeats.
But here's the medicine in your question:
When these opposing forces arise,
they're not really about the other person at all.
They're mirrors, reflecting back
your own heart's unmet places,
your own wisdom waiting to be remembered.
Ask yourself:
Do you hate because they hurt you,
or because they showed you where you hurt yourself?
Do you love because they complete you,
or because they reflect your own completeness?
The real work isn't choosing between love and hate.
It's finding that quiet center within your own heart
that watches both arise and fall away,
like clouds passing through an endless sky.
This is how we crack our hearts open -
Not by forcing love or fighting hate,
but by discovering what remains
when both are allowed to dance through us.
Your question holds its own answer:
These feelings aren't enemies to resolve,
they're teachers guiding you home
to the love you've always been.
Remember:
Everything is always moving,
coming together and growing apart.
Your work is not to stop the dance,
but to find your center in its midst.
And from that center,
you can choose:
To come closer or create boundaries,
To engage or to release,
To transform or to transcend.
But whatever you choose,
choose it from that quiet place
where love remembers itself,
And here's a secret, just between us:
In the end, it's always just
you & you.
Love, Oriya
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